So narcissistic ex has moved onto a new woman already, it's been 2 weeks. Should someone warn her, for example show her photos of injuries he has given and messages of what he is really like? This guy is crazy and a danger to anyone he ends up with. What would you do? Mind your own business and be grateful he's moved onto the next or feel an obligation to let her know.
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Honestly she won't believe you. Would you have listened?
No I didn't. :(
I am going though the exact same thing. My ex moved on in a few months his 25 and she is just 18 she finished school last month. I want to warn her but she would not believe me and its to dangerous for me right now to do so. I did comment on one of her instagram photos telling her that ring she was given for xmas was my engagement ring and to be careful what he tells her and she never replied to it. She doesn't even know my baby and i exist or the avo. It is so hard as they are so good to make out we are the crazy ones that have been lying. I know i wouldn't of lissened to his ex feonce before me but i do wish though she did warn me.When his mother came to stay with me after her husband bashed her up she said to me now if my son ever touches you you let me know and he had. if it wasn't for her little warnings like telling me stories of her husband that it wouldn't of clicked he was abusive and i wouldn't of left. So i would definitely let her know if it won't bring danger to you and if she doesn't believe you soon the pieces of puzzle you have given her will fall in place.
I warned my exs new gf. She didnt listen. He has her convinced im.crazy.
As others have said which is a very fair point: she might not listen BUT she might just watch a little closer, see the warning signs a little sooner.
In a different point of view my ex has had a new gf for a few years now amd they are engaged, i dont really know but maybe he grew up, maybe he doesn't do to her what he did to me.
I was the first girl he'd done it to, i dont know if he's done it to others after me but I think if I'd seen pictures and police reports I'd have dumped him and dodged a bullet.... you can't argue with police reports and pictures...
But also, do you intend to do this for every new girlfriend? If not, then when do you stop i guess? Where do you draw the line?
She probably wont listen but still warn her. At least you have given her a chance. Two weeks on he isn't going to be a new and improved man.