hi all.. mother of 3. 3yr, 2yr and newborn...for what i thought was a decision made from both sides i had my tubes tied...now i feel like a complete moron as my partner has been saying how clucky he is and how he wants another. i cant have another child even if i hadnt got my tubes tied. im emotionally and physically wrecked. i dont sleep. i hide to eat something. im tired. i havent had a bath/shower in days. i haven't shaved my legs since before i had my newborn which is now 6 weeks old. im going insane. i dont want another kid...but hes making me feel really bad. i thought we made this decision together.
2 Replies
Give your self sometime. 3 kids under 3 is a very full on house hold. Tell your hubby how you feel if his at work all day he might not realise or understand how full on everything can be. Do yourself a favour and book your 3yrs old into a 3yr kinder program so you can have alittle break.
You made the right decision, people get clucky but it doesn't mean they should have more children. Even if you hadn't had your tubes tied it sounds like way too soon for hubby to be thinking of more kids. I actually think if hubby was that keen on more kids he'd be making sure you were getting enough time to look after you. Personally sounds like he needs to focus on the newborn HE HAS NOW not dreaming of another one. Tell hubby to grow up, pull his weight, give you a break, and look after his baby!