hi all we are trying for baby number 2 it's taking its time been a year already just getting to a low thinking it's not going to happen and when people say "oh stop thinking about it and it will happen" nope just can't turn it off just want to see some advice on how to try to be positive yes I'm very grateful for our child but really want a second thank you
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No advice but know how you feel. Our youngest is nearly 8 & we have been trying again since she was 1, I've never been on any form of contraception & it's doing my head in! The thing is I don't have any support as everyone keeps telling me that I'm crazy that is want another & that I shouldn't! If I br it up with my family they just laugh at me & call me stupid. Every time I'm not feeling well ect they come up with some smart ass remark like "oh god you're not bloody pregnant are you."
All the best hun, I hope everything works out & you get your bubba ?
That is terrible do they just not see that the feeling is there that you really want another child to love. I'm just over hearing oh it will happen well hello when we do it when the time is right and still not happening ? hope it happens for you soon x
the point it is recommended to see a doctor for tests is if after trying for a year nothing has happened. they can check sperm count whether or not you are ovulating and if there has been any damage done by the first pregnancy which may be causing issues.
Yes we have started test just money is a big factor a blood test that can be done but will cost $85 that I won't get any money back and we need to work out how to do the sperm sample as the collection point isn't close to home so if there is traffic there is no point to the sample