Believe it or not it's not about the money. The movement of money is the only indicator we now have that he exists.
If I was a gold digger I wouldnt have married a bankrupt man. (Literally)
We were married over 15 years ago, I'm a hell of alot older and wiser now. He is also very good at hiding it, for all of the last 10 years no one believed the hell he put us through, they do now.
If he died tomorrow I would be in heaven I would only need his death certificate and I could save myself thousands in court and Lawyers fee's
I'm taking him back to court.
I know a month isnt long for child support. But when it's automatically deducted and going through fortnightly due to the level of his arrears it means something has changed the problem is figuring out what has changed.
I would have loved to have been able to have cancelled the 3 hour appointment with my lawyer yesterday and instead gotten my 13yo and 14 yo passports to go to indonesia with their class next year.
We dont know where he is (including his ex girlfriend who had him charged for him to go to prison)
His daughter doesnt know where he is.
His parents don't answer their phone, ironic considering when here for the hearing they only wanted to see the girls but wouldn't stick around 2 days to actually see them (they were away at camp, kept the hearing off their radar and meant they weren't stressing even if I was.)
Paperwork is still being prepared (its massive) then I need to serve him at this point centerlink are the only ones who know where he is.
To the IM who said that due to the insurance attached to his super we WILL be notified of his death THANKYOU its good to know we won't be left in complete limbo with every department pleading privacy to not tell us he is dead!
Being left hanging is the worst thing I could imagine happening.
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