Long story short .* sorry for rambling.
My hubby and i have been together for 17 yrs * highschool* we are married and have 3 children of our own (all of the same gender) ages 14 ,12 &7,for the past year i have felt like im not done with our family that 1 more would be make us complete, my husband also feels it , but for some reason im doubting my self , for eg , will people think were crazy? And do they think we are only having another child to try for the opposite sex ( not true at all) 4 omg really! Can i do it ? Are we too old now ( 36&34) and not that i am one to care what peilople think usually but its getting to me,
I guess im looking for reassurance or tips help , is there much difference between 3 & 4?????
1 more?
1 more?
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Who cares what people think! The only questions I'd ask myself in your position is 1. Are we coping with the ones we have (does everyone have there needs met) if the answer is yes, go for it.
2. Are we financially coping with the ones we have (does everyone have there needs met) if the answer is yes, go for it.
By needs I mean needs, not wants :)
I'd go for it! I have 3 daughters (4, 2 & 9 months) Amand I would love another I'm actually hoping for another girl!