I am about to go back to work after being a sahm for 2 years. How do I get over feeling horrendously guilty that I'm abandoning my children? I never felt this bad when I went back to work after having my first, but since I've been at home after having my second, I'm now feeling guilty. I feel to be a better mother, I need to go back, but at the same time, feel bad for wanting to go back! My youngest has always been difficult & I've really had enough of being home. I do the playgroups & other things, but feel I'm at breaking point. Please no negativity, I'm already feeling like crap as it is. I feel as though I'm damned if I do, and damned if I don't. I know my eldest will be fine, but the youngest is very much a mamas boy & I'm not sure how he'll cope. What did all you lovey im's in the same position do?
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How is putting your son in an environment that is monitored, safe, and educational abandonment? I just can't see it that way.
It sounds like you and your son will both benefit hugely from this change. Sure there will be tears and adjustments but what better way for your son to learn that the world is safe, fun, and exciting, develop some relationships beyond mummy, make some friends, and develop some independence. What a fantastic gift you are giving your son.
Plus when you are with your son it will be quality! I was reading an article the other day that said research was saying quality time with our kids was far more important than quantity.