How do you get over the need for a baby? we have a 5 year old son and we both want to have more kids in the near future but we are so far in debt and we don't know how we are going to get out of it. my partner isn't working at the moment because hes doing courses and I'm a stay at home mum to our little boy. We have talked about more kids and he says that we have to get rid of our debt first. Im upset at this because i would just love to have a baby sometime in the next few years and it doesnt look like its going to happen. we do have time though Im 25 and my partners 24. but i just can't get over that feeling that i really want a baby.
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If you really want a baby that's ok, but maybe it's time to get a job so you can help get that baby faster ? If you want something do what you have to do to make it happen.
Get a job, pay off your debt and you can be in a totally new position within six to twelve months.
If your son is 5, then he is either at school or kinder so maybe get a job in those times, even cleaning houses maybe? Pay off your debt faster and then think about it
Definitely pay off that debt! And be proud of your partner for trying to make responsible decisions... He is not doing it to hurt you, he just wants what's best for you both and your son.
If your son is 5 wouldnt he be in prep? Therefore you are not a stay at home mum and could get a job to help ease the debt off quicker?