Would you tell?
If your partner cheated on you, you found out, and knew the 'other woman' was also cheating on her partner, (and knew about you) would you tell the 'other womans' partner? Or would you just move forward with life and not give her a second thought?
Just curious to see how other women would handle the situation.
Would you tell?
Would you tell?
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Hell yes I would tell! If people knew my partner was cheating and didn't tell me I would be devastated. Yes I would tell him, he deserves to know and he can decide what to do with that info.
I wouldn't tell. Her relationship with her husband is none of my business. The only relationship I need to concern myself with is mine.
No. I wouldn't. They deserve each other and that poor guy doesn't deserve the hurt. He will find our eventually. What does it achieve by telling him? Are you just trying to cause pain to the other woman? Totally understandable but not at the expense of her partner.
She'll get what's coming. Be the bigger person. Don't stoop to their level.
By the way I'm so very sorry this has happened to you.
I'm not sure. My instinct says yes there is nothing at all wrong with telling, he does deserve to know and I hate how many people don't tell. why not tell him? You didn't cause his pain, she is and it only gets worse the longer it goes on and Nobody tells him.
But then I would consider above everything how will it help you move On? Thats the most important thing to handle it however you see right. Do what you need to, regain your power. It might be better for you to move on and leave it all behind you and leave them to being disgusting , or it might feel better to have them all caught and have it all out in the open then move on. Whatever works for YOU is the right answer.
Dont feel guilty if you do decide to tell him. You and him did absolutely nothing wrong and you should not feel bad if you want to tell him or speak to him about it.
Yes I would tell him because if I were her partner I would be devastated if no one told me but everyone knew. He deserves to know and decide what to do.
Yes I would. I was the person who didn't know they were being cheated on. When I finally found out I was humiliated. No one told me. Not even the other woman's partner who knew and who has left her.
I wish I was told - by anyone! When I finally realised and told a friend of mine she already knew. I couldn't even vent to anyone because they knew to. Please tell the other person
That is horrible! And you have really shitty friends! I hope you dumped that man on his ass and threw the friends out with him!
Yes tell him! I personally would want to know! If it causes him pain then so be it! That pain will be short term... Finding out months or even years later would cause more hurt! The sooner the better I say! Remember you are not the one hurting him, she is!
Been in this situation i got cheaten on told their partner and they didnt believe it even after they seen the txts ive since mooved on to a better man and my ex is still seeing the other girl behind her husbands back!