I am pregnant with my third and my parter has made it perfectly clear he didn't want any more how do I tell him? Im so happy but I know him and all his family are going to make me feel horrible I am so stressed out.
telling my partner im pregnant when he doesnt want anymore children
telling my partner im pregnant when he doesnt want anymore children
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Congratulations! It wasn't only you who made the baby, so he has a role to play in this! The little one was obviously meant to be, stay happy and take care of yourself! Hopefully his reaction will surprise you. Good luck with it all.
Why not try a fun way to tell him, so that it might take off a bit of a shock. There are heaps of fun ways on google. I agree with above you didn't make a baby alone he is apart of this to. If he isn't happy to start off with he will be soon enough, let him wrap his head around it. Congrats on your great news!
Congratulations! Stuff his family, they can't get angry at you, he played as much part as you did. If he wants sex and no baby he should of got the snip or used his own form of contraception, he should never rely on you to deal with it if it is his choice not to have any more.
As for telling him, tell him how it is, unless you deliberately missed the pill or something so that you would fall pregnant. If it was a pure accident, tell him and if he starts blaming you, tell him he is as much to blame.
Can so relate! This was me 6yts ago & it was hard my hubby was a complete shit about the pregnancy, he didn't want any more. When I had our daughter he instantly fell in love, she's daddy's little girl & has him wrapped around his finger. All the best it will be fine ;)
Congratulations! How wonderful! If you feel he may be a little shocked perhaps tell him when your other two children arn't around. However I would be very surprised if he isn't happy, whatever your plans might be, life happens! He was there & so enjoy the surprise & joy of it all :)
This was me just over a year ago. I told him the day I found out it took him a while to come round to the idea that there was going to be another member of the family, but abortion is not up for discussion with me. Now we have a 7 1/2 mth old who he loves to bits. Just be honest with him it may take time but he will come round to the idea eventually it took until near the end of my pregnancy for my partner to get excited but in the last few days he was more clucky then me.