Can you drink safely after having a drug addiction?

Anon Imperfect Mum

Can you drink safely after having a drug addiction?

Ok so I used to be a drug addict, a really bad drug addict. My question is; is complete sobriety the answer or can I drink alcohol in moderation. I went to a rehab where they teach that complete abstinence, that was almost four years ago and I have recently started having the odd drink. I just want to hear from others who have recovered and can drink in moderation. Or am I kidding myself and complete abstinence and a twelve step program the only way to go?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Iam not an addict but i would suggest that this could get out of hand easily if you have an addictive personality.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Thanks :)

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I am very close friends with an addict. Anyway the reason they say total abstinence is because of the cross addiction issue. Also alcohol can dull emotions etc and then before you know it your back to square one. Personally if you are serious about staying clean and sober I'd stay well clear. There are perfectly nice drinks that have no alcohol in them.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Thanks :)

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Alcohol can lower inhibitions and result in poor decision making. That could lower your strength when it comes to saying 'no' to drugs.

I just want to say how impressed I am by anybody who overcomes a drug addiction. That takes so much strength and determination, it's truly an amazing thing x

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Thanks for your kind words :)

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Anon Imperfect Mum

alcohol is different so im not sure, i used to be addicted to pot for a while, ice at another time and also heroin, i successfully quit all three without intervention or rehab of any sort, it was so friggen difficult, i would never want to go back there. but i have a drive in me that says when enough is enough, and i follow through. During these addictions i never defaulted on my mortgage or car loan - shows some kind of dedication, I have been free of addiction for 4 years, but during those 4 years i have had 3 joints and 2 oxycotton. I think as long as you can say to yourself, ill have one tonight but thats it for 6 -12 months and follow through you may be able to have "A" drink (not to get drunk) on special occasions. But its really important to think of the reason behind why you want to drink. I used to do the drugs i did to escape reality and repress the feelings i had related to the abuse i copped everyday. I dont have to repress or hide any more, im okay with being sensitive and vulnerable in front of people, because ultimately if someone has a problem with my emotions towards an event or experience, it says more about there resistance to their emotions.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I was thinking more like one to three every few weeks like " a normal Aussie" you've given me some food for thought.
Thanks and great work on getting over your own addiction issues :)

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Honey sorry to say 'Once An Addict, Always An Addict'. I how this cause I have been sober One Day At A Time for almost 15 years. Alcohol is a drug and as addicts me must accept this whole heartedly or you will relapse. Please if you need to talk, please please reply to this post ❤️❤️

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