I am having trouble with the look but dont touch rule alot of people go by. I understand perving, movies with hot guys/girls ext. But im talking about strippers and people like that where there is a real life person in front of you acting suductive and showing off all their bits.
I dont see how it is ok to have a man who is taken go n sit n have another woman do that for them, if the tables were turned and it was a taken woman getting naked for a single bloke but not letting him touch her would that still be ok? I wouldnt think so. Call me a prude or what ever but i just cant get my head around how (mainly men) can think its ok...
looking but no touching
looking but no touching
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I agree, its not something I like either. Lucky for me Ive never been in a relationship where the man liked to do that kind of thing. The only time Ive ever experienced a guy even considering this was on a bucks night. Quite honestly I hate that bucks and hens nights are seen by some as an opportunity for a last hurrah. When I have seen strippers myself, they have been at parties and I just didn't enjoy it. I love it when my BF does a strip for me though and Im happy to reciprocate :)
Yep I don't like it either your not alone! I don't see why if your in a monogamous relationship the need to have another woman's bits flaunted in front of you. I'm lucky to not be in that kind of relationship where he wants to see strippers thank god.
It's like the 'all men watch porn' thing. No, not all men watch porn, some men do. Some men don't. Some men may have watched it at one time but not now. Some men are grossed out by porn. Some women watch porn, but not all. If your happy for your man to watch that's fine but doesn't mean you have to accept a man into your life who watches porn, if it bothers you don't accept it. It bothers me so I deliberately seek men who are not into it.
I love it, lol probably one of the only women that do. I've been to see strippers and got a lap dance I loved it, went home to my partner at the time and he was pissed because I had been to the strippers but he used to go and watch the skimpies all the time. I have no problem with looking and not touching and I'm not a hot chick either, yet I don't feel like my ex was doing the wrong thing or degrading me when he did it. I think it's all up to the individual isn't it great how we can all have differing opinions.
you dont have to understand it, obviously its not something you are comfortable with and thats cool, but some people like it, and thats their business.
you mention in your post about a taken women getting naked for a single bloke, and would that be ok? im sure alot of stripprs/skimpies have boyfriends, its just a job to them-no sexual intent on their behalf.
Yes I think it's so wrong when your in a relationship, very disrespectful, if your happy together why do you need to see someone's elses bits all over you??? Just asking for trouble......... Men can't handle temptation.........