For the past few months, my 'special cuddles' have only been lasting a few minutes - if that! When it first started happening we both found it funny, and would joke about it, saying that "we're just a perfect fit" and so on, but it is now getting to the point where I'm finding it embarrassing. Hubby still thinks its great, he thinks he's some kind of a champion, but I am loosing interest in 'special cuddles' now because I'm finish in record breaking time, and am left waiting for hubby to 'come to the party'... Which kills the mood. He's always had a good record of making me happy, but it was always after a 'normal' length of time. Im not 'in the mood' all the time and im not over sensitive in that area (I don't get all giddy if I drive down a bumpy road or anything) but Is it normal for women to only last 1 or 2 minutes so frequently?
Is it normal for women to "finish first" 99% of the time?
Is it normal for women to "finish first" 99% of the time?
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I am exactly the same, most of the time I wouldn't even last a minute after getting started! It's annoying at times but most of the time we are very in tune with each other and it's rarely a problem.
Maybe have some self pleasure before intercourse? You might last longer second time :)
Could u try to go again and again after? I usually climax 3 times, or maybe try a few different positions they may not help u reach the finish line so quickly?
You girls are all lucky!! I can't even climax once...at all!! ):
You are not alone :(
Most couples rarely finish simultaneously and a lot of women require extra effort to finish. So someone had to finish first and I'd rather it be me, because the alternative is not finishing at all!
Iv always been like that! Sometimes I get frustrated waiting thinking when it is the opposite we don't keep going till I come lol
Forget normal when it comes to sex
Try to think unsexy thoughts at the start lol or I always give a lot for him at the start , he gets bjs most everytime or else I'm just over it and have to work too hard we often have quick sex and long foreplay which is mostly about him
But I also ind if I push through the discomfort of continuing after I cum I can get into it gain and can cum 3-4 times
You go girl. I rarely go and annoys my man no end. Sorry I got no real advice unless do a bit of foreplay before the finale ;-)