Hi sisters,
Just wanted to say thanks for the lovely words you all said to me the other week..
I just need a little bit of help with a few questions and what do i have to do..
The kids are doing well its been a long month and they are both under 3, i packed the house up and have gone back to my family for a little bit, there father thinks we are on hoildays but i dont think i could ever go back up there as i have found out most of our friends knew about the new girl friend and said nothing..
I'm going to go and see someone to talk to next week.. but i feel guilty everyday about the move and i dont belong here either. . Thats why i left in the first place.
He has called to speak with the kids once..
Im still so lost and not sure what to do or where to go..
I have centerlink sorted out, the house im still sorting out has to go though court now, not sure what else i have to do about the kids and i beening down here..
Thanks sorry if long..
update single mum..
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Firstly, well done!!
Good for you for puting you and your children first.
You dont need these "so called friends" in your life, if they can't be honest with you...then their not friends.
Seek out a lawyer, and start a mediation process, so you can ensure the kids reside with you as much as possible. - with Father being basically FIFO you are the steady parent and the children need that.
DO NOT FEEL GUILTY!!
Good luck to you, you did NOT bring this upon yourself.
All the best x