Hi, I left my abusive ex over a year ago, I haven't been looking for anyone/thing have been really enjoying my time single as I haven't had much single Time at all my whole adult life. Met this guy on the wknd thru mutual friends, and omg I'm sure it wasn't just me who felt the sparks flying. I was way too scared to do anything about it, now I can't get him out of my mind. Is it normal to have these thoughts? I feel like I fell too fast w the wrong guy the 1st time and wanted to b able to control my feelings a bit more and really take things steady, feels to me like I can't control it at all, scared, and wondering if it's normal to feel this way. Feel like I've just fallen head over heels :/
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As someone who has been in your position remember this isn't love it's lust. They are two very different things. Love comes after knowing someone for a longer period of time. Lust is a chemical reaction that comes on quickly. There are plenty of guys who you can have this feeling with (I promise). Make sure you have done some work on yourself so you can identify warning signs of guys to avoid (that can end yob back where you were).
Yup....lust. Natural to feel like that, but its what you do with those feelings that count. One year is too early IMO...enjoy being YOU! x
Yup....lust. Natural to feel like that, but its what you do with those feelings that count. One year is too early IMO...enjoy being YOU! x