Regarding 14 year old girl

To all the mumma’s out there with teen daughters I need help
My 14 year old won’t clean her room won’t help with housework is rude talks back swears calls me a bitch tells everyone to kill Themselves calls her dad a ashore just very angry I can’t get her to help around the house and recently if I don’t take her places she just walks out the house and catches the bus
This behaviour is just going to get worse I just need help on how to stop this behaviour
She is in counciling with headspace as she has attempted suicide once and was cutting due to bullying in year seven but has recently moved school and formed new friendships I hope all this has made sense I just need help on ways to control behaviour before it rips family apart