Girl cattyness

Anon Imperfect Mum

Girl cattyness

Why are school girls so catty and bitchy.

I have 3 boys, and 3 girls, and I've never had the drama of bullying and fighting that I have seen with the girl groups.

No I'm not saying my girls are perfect. They have been involved in their share of drama. But I just don't understand it. Why can't girls get along? There has been a lot of drama between my daughter 10 and an off again on again friendship. When my daughter chose to walk away, and hang out with the boys in the group, she was called a slut for it. If she wants to play with a different group of kids for what ever reason they make fun of her name.
boys just punch it out and get over it after that. Girls hold on grudges for decades

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Yes, it's so disappointing. My eldest tried to fit in, was bullied and struggled. My youngest girl could not care less and has had the better experience because when they tried to upset her, she just blocked them and told them not to speak to her again. I think because she is quite fine on her own, she just copes and they all know she will not get involved or gossip so its ended up they all trust her more.. My goofy son just cruises through and his only trouble involves... girls lol.

If your daughter is able to cope and just shrug her shoulders, walk away, act like she does not care.. I did some role playing with my eldest and she told me she still remembers it 😆 we even used dolls. It just allowed her to think about how she may react to different scenarios.

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