Why do all the bad shitty people get everything good? Why do they have all the luck? Why do only good things happen to them? Why are they always the happiest? Yet us genuinely good people, just keep getting bad luck every which way! Everything is so hard for us. We get no good luck, and nothing good ever happens to us. I just don’t understand it.
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I know how you feel. I see so many evil hearted hateful ppl, who have done horrid things to others, get so much handed to them, when I see so many lovely, kind, charitable ppl suffer. Sadly that's just life.
It sucks big time, I hate that there is no justice and that most of the time there is no karma or consequences to these bad ppl who have damaged and destroyed others but who get to move on with anew life and new partner. I dont understand it either and it’s very hard to live with this as a fact and reality.
It all depends on what you perceive as good luck.. If someone is a horrible person, believe me they are not really happy. I have seen some very wealthy people in therapy.
These people will all eventually experience their own loss, it"s inevitable. If they are horrid to other people.. they will be incredibly alone when it happens. What you put out there, eventually comes back to you.
Focus on what you really value e.g. building relationships and happy memories with your family and friends. That's all you will have to hold in the end. I have experienced so much trauma and loss, so I will never take this forgranted. Someone who has not, probably would.
While I don't perceive myself as lucky at all, these things have shaped me. Hopefully to be empathetic towards others and not miss out on what really matters. I would rather that than walking through life ignorant to it. Maybe they are not really lucky at all...
In my experience, it's not so much a label of good or bad people, but people who are happy to be 'bad' to get what they want.
I mean being rude, manipulative and stepping on others, or being completely self obsessed to get their goal.
Sadly I've learned this the hard way with my SIL. She has everything because she's not been bothered how she hurts others to obtain wealth. However, her life isn't as perfect as it's made out to be. She's got very few family & friends & her own mother told me 'i love, but don't like my daughter '. Her father prefers my husband and I no longer attend lunches when she visits as no one visits her, or even invites her.
So outwardly they have everything, but usually end up with nothing.