Hi ladies. I have moved to cairns I have a teenage daughter and no friends. The only person I know is my partner which we live with and his friends which are male. I am overweight and desperately want to lose at least 20kg. I want to join a gym that has hit 40 class or similar but feel like a fish out of water. I hate trying new things and making new friends. And my bf and I had a fight tonight as we are struggling as a combined family at the moment. I am upset, feeling fat with no friends and really struggling. Sorry really just needed somewhere to vent and someone to talk to at 11pm at night. I am late 30s divorced lonely if you want to be friends????

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Same!!! I’m in cairns too! What suburb are you in?
Redlynch /freshwater area. Wanna meet for a coffee ?
Before going to the gym focus on your calorie intake. Download the my fitness pal app and put your food and drinks in every day. You’ll be surprised how much you’re actually over eating. If you keep in a calorie deficit you’ll 100% lose weight. Then when you feel comfortable enough go to a gym 👍🏻
If you go to a gym but not cut back on your calories you still won’t lose weight. Good luck 👍🏻🥰
Im in Redlynch and walk daily.
Im in my 40’s. Im always down to text, chat & meet ups.