My partner has WhatsApp I his mobile.He got it as when he started a new job,that’s how the boss tended to communicate with staff.Eg group chat etc.
He would also message me on it as he has not put normal credit on his phone in awhile despite being able to afford it.
He has since stopped work.
I have noticed odd times he was last online when I would go to message him.
I’ve actually asked him about it as one time I messaged and he replied instantly.My response was “oh we’re you already talking to someone as I thought you’d be asleep(he sleeps odd hrs so it’s common for me to send a message for when he wakes) and you were online a little while ago.
He got very defensive and said oh are you stalking me or something and can’t he check his messages from me as he states he only uses it for our communication now.
I call bullshit as he has given me four or five different reasons why he was online at weird times.I’m talking early hrs of the morning etc.
And today he has put a fingerprint lock on the actual App itself.
I don’t know his passcode pattern and he is cagey about me knowing it as he opens his phone with Face ID or fingerprint the odd times he has given it to me to use next to him
He has prior history with talking to other females online and when I point blank asked him if he is sending abusive messages or talking to someone he shouldn’t he got very angry in a narcissistic way.
If he isn’t doing anything sus,why put a separate fingerprint lock on that particular app if only talking to me on it?
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I think you know what he is up to. He is def hiding something.
He’s most likely up to no good.
But even if it was innocent (this time) you will never trust him
So you’re onto him and he’s treating you like shit, you know this isn’t good don’t you
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Prior history.
Suss behaviour.
You know. You don't need us to tell you.
Imagine life without this stress.
Now go make it happen.
Listen to your gut lovely lady.
It's a hook up sight. He's rooten around
What’s app is? I use it for overseas text msgs only when I travel. I didn’t realise it’s for hook ups?
WhatsApp is not a hookup app.
I’m sure people use it for hooking up, just like messenger, snap chat etc but there are legitimate non hookup reasons people use WhatsApp.
I use it in my business most days.
This is what I thought lol I was a bit confused when I read that reply.
It's not tinder lol
I wouldn't take advice from someone who uses the word "rooten".
You know the answer. The big question is why do you put up with it? It’s happened before and you forgave him so he’ll never stop now. Stop asking him about it and walk out the door