Help me dress
I'm 38, and a bigger girl. I fit anything from a 18-26 depending on brand, and cut. I have little shape, bust 122, waist 112 hips 122. I'm 5"4. Large busted, short thick but tonned legs. (Thunder thighs) and the C-section overhang.
I need help with confidence and style. I used to be thin, and an hourglass. I had so much self love.
If you match my discrimination, please post a photo of your style. Show me how I can dress with confidence and feel attractive.
I know where to buy, I just need that boost seeing people like me dress in the way I'm too scared too
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Google "plus sized models" and have a good look at how they dress.
Hit up stores like city chic and autograph, and find your style - take an honest but supportive friend.
But most importantly, don't compare yourself to others. Every shape is different and you need to find things that work for you.
I have a friend who is a lot bigger than me, but she has fantastic calves so wears dresses a lot. I have massive calves, so only wear pants.
Dresses also look stupid on me because I'm short with huge boobs, and they are all cut wrong for me, they hand like a bag.
Whereas that friend has a very large waist, so pants hang like a bag on her.
If you can afford it, hire a personal stylist for a couple of hours. A different friend did that after gaining a ton of weight, and they sorted out what shape clothes she needs.
I’m a size 16-18. My go to is little party dress and love style n co. They have such beautiful and bright dresses.
I also wear snag shorts underneath to stop chaffing.