Hi IMs,
I’m wanting to know how I go about organising a threesome for my husband and myself?! Is it apps all the way, should I hire someone, is there a certain place we should go to meet people who might be interested? Not looking for advice on whether or not to do it, more so how I set it up? Thanks in advance 😊
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From my past experiences, hire a professional. Expensive yes but experience wise and the aftermath... it isn't as messy as if it were a close friend or a random.
Hire a marriage counsellor instead.
Fetlife
Try the sites Red Hot Pie and Aussie Threesomes, you can specify what you're looking for and whether you want to meet first, play later or just play.
It depends what you're after. If you're after an experience, and having a connection doesn't come into it, then a professional would be a good move - they'll be tested for all the nasties and won't be the type to catch feelings or harass afterward (or put up with either). If you and hubby need more of a connection, then an app for swingers would be the go, and you may want to put a profile up looking for a unicorn. Good luck! I hope it's all you imagine it to be 😊
Is it just me that feels this way.....
I can't imagine "playing" with a professional.
Wouldn't you worry they find you repulsive and have to force themselves to do it?
You have literally paid someone to be with you, I don't know how guys do it, it feels kind of rapey (I know it's their job and it absolutely isn't and they choose to do it).
At least at a place like a swingers party, people pick who they are attracted to, it's a little more organic.
But from another post on here I went down the rabbit warren lol and apparently STDs are absolutely rampant at those swingers places. Yuk.
If I'm ever in a relationship and we are no longer enough for each other, I think I'll just exit.
Go with an experienced escort babe, do your research though and go thru them to find one you are happy with, communicates well and answers your questions, preferably one who has good reviews on couples and their bookings. You will be able to tell when you speak to them which ones actually enjoy it and have a chat, spend the time making conversation etc to lighten the mood and get more comfortable with each other and a little less like strangers, the others will just be in and out the door with your money that quick you won’t have experienced anything that you wanted to and will be a let down.
I always tell my clients before meeting up with them to discuss between themselves what each others boundaries are and what they wouldn’t be happy with and a couple things that they want to experience the most and to let me know when I get there so we are all on the same page on that night, it also breaks the ice, gives the escort an idea of likes and dislikes and then roll with whatever is comfortable within your group. I tend to pay that little bit more attention to the female and get the guy in with us to join. I have a few regular couple clients who I’m also now pretty close with. And if ever throughout the booking you aren’t happy with something or not enjoying it or whatever reason don’t be afraid to speak up and say it! Also escorts need to have their recent sexual health certificate and also condoms legally have to be worn for both oral and penetration and changed with every insertion to each woman. Goodluck hopefully see a wicked success story on how it went 🤞😘 eeek I’m excited for you!!
Scarlet Blue-
Escorts and Babes
Locanto
They are just the three top advertising sites for escorts but many more. Just don’t be quick to lay a deposit either as a lot will scam you. And also look at the price and ask what you get for it etc