I’m 37 and have always had an incredibly healthy sex life with absolutely no issues what so ever. My partner and I were having amazing sex almost daily, often more and I was easily aroused and was “ready” straight away.
In the last 6 months I’ve had next to no sex drive and it’s as dry as a desert down there! It doesn’t matter what we do or try nothing works other than lube.
My poor husband feels it’s him but I’m still incredibly attracted to him, love him as much as I always have and I want to be doing it but my body just won’t click into gear or sometimes I’m horny but my body won’t lubricate.
I’ve tried libido vitamins, wearing different underwear, my period is normal, don’t seem to have any health issues, am a little over weight but will go to the doctor if I can’t resolve this.
I also take antihistamines often however never had an issue previously.
I do have 3 teenage children and a fairly stressful work life where I sit all day at a computer.
Just after maybe some ideas on what to do!
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Stress and weight! It's happening to me too I used to want it more than hubby now it's once a week or fortnight. For me it is stress and weight that I've put on because of stress. I've just started to lose weight and exercise so hopefully that makes a difference.
Definitely see a gyno, just in case 🙂