We have totally lost chemistry in the bedroom. My needs have not been thought of in a while it seems. I can remember the last big "O", it was a whole ago. He was tired, so it was easy to take the lead. Now, it seems as though my need to reach my "O" had gone out the window. It seems to be all about him getting his rocks off, and I just have to lay there like a moldable object that gets twisted up into ways I can't explain. I want to feel his body up against mine, I don't want to feel a constant slap on my vag that gives me no pleasure at all. I miss the passionate kissing, him examining my body. But no, he just wants to go to work with a smile on his face, and after I send the kids off to school, I go back to bed and finish myself off...
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Dont wait until he goes to work - roll straight over and finish yourself off in front off him when he is 'done'. Let him clearly know that you are not! He may be very excited to see you pleasure yourself and at least will get the message that you're not reaching satisfaction with him.
Some men are simple creatures - they need the obvious stated to them or they won't pick up on clues.