For those who have been ‘separated under one roof’, how did you do it?
There is no other option for me (there are literally no houses where we live, and I can’t uproot my children from everything they know/love), I have nobody, but I need some examples of how others did it.
How did you ‘spilt custody’?
If you owned the home, how did you seperate bills etc?
Literally everything is in his name, apart from the mortgage.
I have no job, and he’s not even attempting to fill out all of the paperwork I’ve given him so I can get some Centrelink payments happening. (He has a very well paying job, so it doesn’t affect him if I don’t get paid, because he’s still supporting me whilst I’m trying to get payments. Which I f**king hate.
Yes, he is a narcissist and is doing this to still control me.
Yes, I’m applying for jobs left right and centre.
So please give me examples.
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This won’t work… you need to move on and it is 100% an option as scary as it all sounds right now. You can do it. Expect him to make things hard for you but take things day by day and have good care for your children if/when you get a job. Start mediation and set out a plan and then have it signed off on by a judge to make it something all parties need to abide by. If signed by a judge it is enforceable.
This is financial abuse. Please contact one of the domestic abuse organisations and get some help. If he isn't going to sign the documents, there is not much else you can do