Ok so a few weeks ago I tested positive for being pregnant, (we had been trying to conceive our 4 for about 8 mths)
Anyways last Monday I started to bleed really heavy almost black blood, and had really sharp pains in my right side, I went out the hospital but because we were so early on 5w5d they weren't concerned they couldn't find a heart beat, saying that the sack is still sitting very high in the womb and I'll just have to wait and see, (I felt like I had lost the baby I knew something wasn't right) Wednesday I went to go get more blood tests done and Thursday I kept my pre booked ultrasound in hopes that being 6 weeks, I would see alittle heart beat, alas it wasn't ment to be :'( so I got the next available apt at my gp to find out what happens next, I got into the Dr's and explained everything she basically said I just have to wait for my body to "clean itself out" I strongly objected, explaining I feel disgusting knowing there is something dead inside of me, and that I can't handle that :( so she sent me out the hospital where they ran more tests to confirm everything 100% :( when the specialist came back he said I had the option the gp suggested but he knew I wasn't comfortable waiting or I could have them do a curete? (Surgically clean me) but they couldn't do it till this coming Tuesday or I could have this medication 3 hourly and it should help my body pass everything naturally and if it doesn't work I can go in for the clean Tuesday anyways...
I took the tablets yesterday but except for alittle blood nothing has happened :( and today not a drop is this normal?? I was under the impression that when it got started it would be similar to early labour :(
I'm so lost right now I feel terrible but does anyone know anything about what's going on with me? ♡♡♡
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I know nothing but I'm so sorry for you! There's nothing someone can say to ease the pain. Having a miscarriage is like losing a child because you love them before you even meet them. Big hugs to you imperfect Mummy! <3
Sorry for your loss :(
From what the dr told you it seems the medication doesn't work for everyone (no medication is 100%). I would definitely keep the appointment for Tuesday.
I have also had to take the medication and I didn't have any cramp like labour but my body did cleanse it self with out having the need for a DC
Sounds like bub has already passed through. With each of mine (3 miscarriages) I would bleed heavily for a few days then it would slowly ease and then stop completely after about a week. Very sorry for your loss.
I think you should let your body do its job and let your misacarriage happen naturally. Sounds like it has already happened anyway. Unless you are a lot later in your pregnancy an early misscarriage will not feel like you are in labour. There are complications to a curette, why would you want to take this option if your body can do it naturally.