After weighing up advise, I told my partner that I feel like we are more like friends… that we live together and look after the kids but I don’t feel intimate anymore… it has been a long time and I tried and tried and kept getting rejected with excuses so I guess I gave up because it felt like it was always when he wanted it and it is never enjoyable for me.
Well I just told him how I am feeling and immediately it i because I have done something wrong and I’m cheating or something(which is why I didn’t want to bring up these feelings)
I guess I want to know what I can do to fix things if he doesn’t Ben want to talk about it and it’s just stuck in his head there must be someone else because it can’t be anything else
What to do???
What to do???
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You need to make your choice and carry it through, if he wants to believe there’s someone else and blame you then there’s nothing you can, just carry it through. He doesn’t have to like it or agree and you can’t control that, but you don’t have to make it your problem.
If you want to leave, then just leave.
If he doesn’t believe your reasons, that’s his business.
Start organising everything and do it, you don’t need his blessing or permission.