Hello everyone I was wondering, my 15 year old niece put a pic up on Facebook that to me was a little bit inappropriate. She was naked and covering herself with her arm, it was a very seductive pic, everyone said she looked beautiful, which she did but I couldn't get over that no body said it was inappropriate. Not even my sister or my mum. She has lots of friends guy ones on there that are a lot older than her and she doesn't really know them. I guess I'm trying to ask is am I the only one that does think it's inappropriate? My daughter is a year older and even she said it was. Mind you I would kill her if she put a pic like that up. Is the age of innocence really over ??? I know a lot if teenagers do put pics up like that. But to me there the ones that get into trouble. Thanks for listening. I believe it borderline peodophilia
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No you are not wrong in thinking what you do. A photo like that is wrong! You should try reporting it for nudity and see if it's taken down.
Totally inappropriate!
I would be livid if she was my child.
How does she know her Facebook friends? Are her parents supporting her photos?
Report it to Facebook. Tell her that they're inappropriate.
You are not wrong at all. I'm often surprised how uneducated parents are on the dangers of Facebook. I'd say something nicely to your sister. I'm not sure why they think that's cool for 15 year old anyway even without it being on social media.
I worked as a nude model for a number of years, so am pretty broard minded.
I can't believe with all the publicity in the media about the dangers of sexting and what resources the Australian government under Kevin Rudd published about internet safety.
Crazy!
This is batshit nuts!
Defiantly inappropriate, my daughter would have been in hiding if she ever thought of doing this. I think the fact that your daughter who is only a year older finds it inappropriate speaks volumes to. I would report it as nudity Facebook takes a grim view on nudity posts and children (as a 15 year old in the eyes of the law that's what she is).
Not wrong. Not innocence but stupidity. Sounds like she has no guidance if noone has said anything about it. Dangerous & sad.
If my daughter posted that i'd backhand her
I would report it.
I would also be asking the question from police as to if this would count as child pornography (naked photo of a child as she is under 18).
Completely inappropriate. I think its terrible that no one told her just how inappropriate it was - especially her mother. It sounds like your sister maybe playing the friend - you know I'd rather be a friend and know what she's doing than be a parent and have her not confide in me. The problem is when things go really wrong, the teenager can it throw it back in her face. I only hope the child has more sense than the parent and realises that it's not a good idea.
I used to see posts in my younger cousins fb that were not great, until one evening I saw a post which did not follow our families morals and wasn't tasteful at all. I messaged my cousin kindly asking her to remove the post. Explaining the implications and explaining that this sort of thing isn't needed to be cool or to fit in. I was thanked for this a couple of years later by her, she said she really appreciates that I cared enough to tell her it was wrong and that her mum and dad's views meant nothing to her then. I would strongly suggest having a quiet word with her, don't go in all this is wrong take it down, explain your feelings about it, try and make it her idea to remove it. Good luck