I have been with my partner for just over 10 years now. Just recently I have had a suspicion that him and my sister have done "something" together. She is single and I've noticed a bit of flirting lately. She's got a hot body and is so much fun, where as I have curves and take a lot of precautions. We all went out one night drinking and my partner disappeared for a bit. When we got home we were going to have sex but it smelt like he already beat me to it. He swears black n blue he would never do anything to hurt me but to me, it feels like he thinks he's chosen the wrong sister. I haven't really spoken to him for a couple of days so he isn't speaking to me now either. I just can't shake the feeling that something went on! If I act like nothing happened,does that mean he will think it's ok? I am so down I just don't know what to do! Please help.
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I don't know if you can trust him. Nobody knows you and I don't know him so it would be guessing. It sounds like you are really down on yourself though. Its really hard to tell if your in a bad place or wether something actually happened. If your really sure you smelt what you smelt then comforting him. Don't pretend nothing happened. If you just keep not talking to him your relationship is going to go down hill anyway! Do you trust your sister? If you can't decide what to do, go to a counsellor/psychologist or whoever so you can work out what to do.
He is an idiot if he has cheated.