My husband works away for months at a time and has asked me to send sexy pictures and videos to him. I have no issue doing this but I just don’t know what to send. I will admit my self confidence is a little shot after having children so that makes me nervous about what to send him. I’ve asked him what he wants and he just says ‘something sexy’… HELP!!! What can I send him?
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The link to you porn. Even if you trust him not to share it, what happens if you divorce? Or his phone is stolen? Your phone is stolen? Your phone, computer or cloud gets hacked? You'll be another victim. Be smart.
Get some sexy lingerie, send snaps of all different angles.
Videos of you using a vibrator on yourself.
Dirty talking, saying you want him.
Sucking a dildo. Rubbing it on your boobs.
Watch some solo porn and get some ideas from there :)
I say err on the side of caution. I trusted my husband (as I should have been able to). As soon as we separated he shared them on online dating sites pretending to be me and to people I knew. It’s a solid no to me. I know the distance is there making it hard for your connection but it’s a solid no from me. Once you share them in any manner you give up any control you think you have on who sees them. Should the worst happen the fallout isn’t worth it. And police won’t touch it with a 10 foot pole… as long as it was sent consensually it’s becomes a “you” problem…
Liked because you shared your experience to stop someone else being a victim, not because this happened to you.
Have met a few who had this happen. For me, I am an adult with a sex drive and give to no fs attitude BUT I know say 10years ago I'd of died if leaked.
It depends on you and what the fall out can be for you. Sadly like you and others have said you just don't know how a break up will end.
I would say avoid sending photos.or videos, and just book in a time to do a video call instead. Video calls cant be saved or screen shot so no risk of them getting into the wrong hands.
Or snapchat so the photos disappear, the snapchat filters make you look amazing as well.
My husband is FIFO and has asked the same.
I will FaceTime him while I’m in the shower just so he can see me naked, I will send him photos dressed up in sexy underwear, I will send naked photos, I have even sent him a video of me playing with myself.
The sexiest thing is confidence, if you’re confident they’re going to love it regardless.
If you don’t want to do, don’t feel pressured into.
Enjoy yourself and have fun 😘