Question on what to do when drugs r involved with children

Anon Imperfect Mum

Question on what to do when drugs r involved with children

I have a question for other mums out there. If u know of someone who is on drugs and is high around her kids and drives with her kids in the car while high what would u do I have tried to help this person but they don't see that it is a problem would you call child safety on them for the sake of the childrens safety or would you just leave it I am very worried about the children with them growing up seeing their mother high all the time or that she might have a accident and hurt the children all because of her selfish act.
She says she does it to get a brake from her kids but she is a stay at home mum has her two kids in daycare 5 days a week has a career for her son two afternoons a week and also a live in nanny so she can have her weekends off and so they can clean her house and feed and put the kids to bed for her

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Call child safety on her. The children come before her relationship with you.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I have helped all I can we r no longer friends so the friendship isn't what's stopping me I just don't know if I have a case to give them

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Her husband is defence force

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Call docs and police!! Have her house raided.. Drugs and driving or drugs and kids dont mix!!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Her house was raided and she got caught with enough drugs to put her away for 6 months but she managed to talk herself out of it and get a 60 minute drug interview

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Yea child services and police. Even if you don't have enough at least you have tried.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

absolutely call them. how would you feel if there was an accident because she was high and something happened to the.kids and you'd done nothing? call them mate, sounds like they need someone like you to look out for them. good.on.you

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Do you like this woman? Are you only friendly with her because of the kids?

I will be honest, it's not your problem or your business. Addicts are selfish. Thet dont get it and are narcissistic.

They arent stupid.

Call ChildFirst. Understand that from here on out you wont have a relationship with the family and walk away.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Be proactive and do something to help these children out! They didn't ask for what their mother is doing and you don't know that they aren't in danger! This mother needs a wake up call, for the sake of her own children. Those poor children don't have a voice! I've been in this circumstance with my sister and my niece and nephew and I wished we'd have gotten the kids out sooner!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

her husband is defence force

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Contact his CO.

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