My Husband and I we been together For 11 yrs his oz and Im Asian. I love him and Never come in my mine I will leave him, We Have good life we have everything. His been telling me seems like were been too long together were bored to each other is that normal for a husband to said that to their wife. Im thinking about it tonight I asked him what happened if we get divorce he answered ill be very Rich what an idiot.. Looks like a red flag.. what happens if the relationship very long husband and wife get bored? Im confused Thanks People
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If hes bored he needs to change some things to fix it. I would hold him accountable to that and let him know, hes said something really hurtful, hes said theres a problem, what is he doing to fix it?
It's not a normal thing to say. It's not necessarily a bad thing to say if that's how he feels and is letting you know so you can both change things up a bit to bring some excitement back - but just saying it with nothing else shows he's an asshole.
I've been with my partner over 25 years and we're not bored with each other.
You've been with your husband 11 years and you weren't bored with him.
Just realise this isn't a you thing, this is a him thing and as much as he can ask for your help in working on it, it's on him to communicate his needs. In regards to bringing excitement back you also don't have to do anything he asks that you're not comfortable with.
Alot of the time couples get to comfortable in their relationships so they kinda stop trying and making that extra effort to keep the spark alive. You both need to work on relighting that spark, go on dates night, spice things up in the bedroom , Go for a romantic get away. Even doing little gestures make a big difference and this goes for both of you, he has to put in more effort aswell.
Almost 18yrs here. Obviously your hubby is a moron if he is saying that and just wants out or maybe he has a fling on the side