ADVISE NEEDED: long term married & whilst still being in love with her husband sharing a good marriage she’s completely in love with someone else who also happens to be a very close family friend. She has a close flirty bond with this family friend who’s single. She’s very torn.
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You need to stop and limit contact with the family friend. Distance, distance and distance. Stop flirting! Don’t act like you can’t control your behaviour.
Get yourself some counselling.
These feelings have developed because you’ve allowed them to.
I’ve felt feelings/spark for people, I think that’s very common. But you make a conscious decision to distance yourself, and not feed that spark!
Don’t behave like you are a victim, take control.
Nothing to be torn about. She can be a good person or not. Her choice.
She’s a piece of shit that doesn’t deserve anyone.
Tell her husband her dilemma and let him decide.
Set the single guy free so he can find a single available woman with morals.
Stay single and see a psychologist to examine why she is so selfish and self centred that shes willing to destroy lives for an ego boost.
Oh and learn to spell, it’s ADVICE needed.
Legitimately don't get why these people think it's their choice when they're "torn" between people. Tell all the other parties the 100% truth and let them decide.