How to leave your husband
Hi all,
Just another wife who has had their husband cheat on them yet again.
How did you leave your husband? I have obviously told him ect but what’s the next step? How do you detach and ensure you are strong enough to cut the cord and not crawl back to their ‘I’m sorry’ cries
I found out my husband had sex with a woman and went on tinder. Initially (god knows why) I gave us another crack and engaged in counselling which went awesome for us both and hearing him speak about things was different with a third party who did not know us.
Unfortunately, I have since found out he had also a plenty of fish account and paid for two subcriptions to ‘only fans’
He has owned these two new findings and with proof, they do fall into the period everything was going on. But given that, I have had enough. He should have just said everything out in the open when he had the chance so I’m feeling very well over it and need to get him gone.
I love him but I do feel I now know I deserve more 100%
For those in this situation, how have you come out on the better side of this and any tips to this new independence world
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Start a journal of how the cheating has made you feel. What you’ve given up
For the marriage, him and kids. Then read it back when you feel weak at his pathetic apologies. .
I dare say there are a lot more Flings and accounts out there, you have only found some of them.
Single mum here. Once you get past the Crap, life is good!!!! Good luck mumma x
Google Chump Lady.
I feel like I wrote this!
I walked away from my marriage after also giving a 2nd, 3rd, 4th chance. I left the house we were living in with our 2 kids and stayed with family until I could find a rental. It was so hard not to go back, especially when I could see how hurt he was.. but he didnt care about how hurt I was when I found out about each time he cheated.
Its so so hard not to go back. By the best advice I can give is to have no contact, unless you have kids in which case only communicate about them. It makes it much easier to get your head around it and move forward.