Is it cheating?
My partner of 3 years and father of my son spends all his time messaging 'friends' on snapchat. He won't tell me who they are and he guards his phone with his life...if I walk behind him he will flip it face down immediately. I can't even speak to him most days because he is too involved in his phone
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Well he's doing something worth hiding. Even if he's not cheating do you really want to live with someone like this?
I say yes... if he can’t show you his phone, then yes!
My ex was just like that!! Drove me INSANE
I’m definitely not the kind of girl to be an annoying jealous girlfriend, or overly controlling. But that boy... he made me feel like I wanted to be those things.
I attempted to break up with him a year in, and he begged and cried for me to stay. So I did against my wishes. But a month later he was still the exact same (didn’t answer calls or messages when he’d go out with “friends”, wouldn’t tell me he’d be going out until I’d ask the next day or two and his answers would be vague, and always that phone tilting shit on Snapchat would drive me mad! Ahah). So I broke up with him for good.
Anyways after we broke up i gained heaps of information about his actions during our relationship:
I found out that although he told me he didn’t use the map feature on Snapchat he actually was, as my friend brought it up with me that she would see him in weird places on there. He had just simply blocked me from seeing his location.
Also, his previous ex told me they got together during the end of our relationship (yeah, when he begged me to stay the first time I tried to break up with him)
And the next girlfriend he got was the name that would always pop up on sc (surprise, surprise.) his “work friend”. I found out later that he would always grab her ass in work while he was dating me and they’d hook up at parties.
Never the less, the 24yr old boy still lives with his parents and his 27yr old brother 😂😭
His job at the time was kfc, but he has since upgraded to Coles home delivery truck driver. He’s crashed two or three of his cars in the last 3 years we’ve been separated
And he’s lost most of his friends due to having a shitty personality.
Rhys R of Murwillumbah, you make me sick.
Seriously girl. Respect yourself. Stand up for yourself. If he is tilting his phone, he is hiding things from you. And likely not good things either...
My suspicions say that maybe he’s talking to previous dates that he’s gone out with before you. Or people he’s met at work or while at the pub/club.
Regardless, good luck with whatever you decide to do x
I’m betting there’s a side chick
My ex use to show me EVERY snapchat message except from 1 female. I took his phone while he was sleeping and found they had been sending facebook messages to eachother before they added eachother to snapchat. She was sending provocative images to him and he asked for more through snapchat. I threw his phone at his head waking him up and told him to pack his shit and leave.
He’s def cheating!!! Start snooping and don’t give him any info!
Something dodgy going on for sure. I’m on group chats with males from work. They are filthy but I leave my phone out and faced up. If my husband wants to have a look there’s nothing to hide.
Yes. The answer is yes.
I would say yes.
And if it's not a full on physical, it's emotional which is just as bad.
He's going out of his way to hide something from you, so he knows he shouldn't be doing it!
An easier question to answer is: is he being deceitful? and yes absolutely. He's hiding something.
My ex did this would turn his phone over , would take it into the bathroom to shower , into the toilet if we were out and he left the table the phone would go with him , turns out he was texting other people and not the remake kind yes turned out he’s gay and he was texting other gay guys .. As far as I’m concerned he has something to hide if you had nothing to hide you wouldn’t care if your partner saw your phone or you left it lying around .. only people who are doing something wrong behave like this ... confront him it’s the only way you will find out the not knowing will drive you insane