How do I get him off the mortgage

Anon Imperfect Mum

How do I get him off the mortgage

Hi ladies, needing some advice please!

My ex and I have been equally paying our mortgage off since our split 12 months ago. Myself and our son have been living in the house, I cover all house costs and we share the mortgage cost.

He has recently started living somewhere and paying rent and has asked me to take him off our mortgage.

I am not in a financial position to refinance in my name, if we sell the house we will walk away with a debt each.

Anyone been in this position and can give advice on steps, how to get hom off the loan etc?? X

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Anon Imperfect Mum

It's not a rental agreement. You either buy him out as a part of property settlement, choose to sell, or you are both equally liable for the full monthly repayments.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

The other way is you find out what your house is worth to rent and you start renting his half off him. So 50% of what the rent is worth until the house can be sold or you're in a position to buy it. That will be better than losing thousands if he pushes a sale. He will still need to pay half the mortgage but that might stop him pushing through with a sale.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Sorry you’re going through this, it’s a tough one with no easy solution.
Maybe go speak with a mortgage broker, they usually have creative solutions.
Maybe you and a family member can take over ownership, if you can’t get the loan alone?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

The only way to get him off the mortgage is to qualify for a new loan without him on it.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I'm a mortgage broker, you will need a financial agreement drawn up and refinance the house and mortgage into your own name.

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