Hi Sisterhood
I haven’t had sex in 10 years. I have childhood sexual trauma and have only ever been with a father of my child, who was physically abusive towards me. We separated 10 years ago. I have major body issues and health issues have made be put weight on that I can’t budge.
I have had very low sex drive but occasionally pleased myself. I don’t think I could ever use Tinder etc, but I would like to have actual sex again. So just wondering if anyone has ever used a male escort at a legal brothel? If so, any tips or hints would be appreciated.
No judgement please.
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I can’t lie, it has occurred to me, not for the same reasons, but same outcome. I can’t face another relationship I’m so done, but at times I’ve missed sex.
Good luck in your journey, no judgement from me/
I’m much the same. I’d rather be single and go without sex for the rest of my life than end up in another crappy relationship.
The best advice I can think of is ring a female brothel first. And ask them who they would recommend. Ring a few and as well in your area.
You can go in,.meet and mingle and find someone you feel comfortable with. Good luck x
Im interested in this too. Suppose the obvious would be condoms.
Wonder how much a male escort would cost?!?
They are much cheaper than female escorts. Females are around $300 per hour. Males are around $120 per hour
I can see why you have thought about it😂.....Men always say women can just go down the pub and there’s plenty of guys looking for it but as you get older, you worry...like if you went to their house and they kidnapped you or had video cameras or something awful and you don’t want to take them to your house, in case they’re a creepy stalker and they know where you and your kids live...but what if the escort showed up in your social circle somehow? Everything is a risk, the older you get, the more you think of the worse case scenarios 😂😂😂 but I understand you line of thinking lol hope you get the answers you want.
I did this when I separated from my ex. I just didn't want the drama of dealing with someone.
He was good, not the best sex of my life. It was worth it at the time and gave me what I needed.
They understand the nerves around it. They're professionals. Just remember that and you'll be fine.
I’m also interested. This is a good question - I think as mothers we get used to neglecting our needs. I definitely miss sex but can’t see myself in a relationship for a while.