I recently found out I was pregnant however it looks as though its chemical/early miscarriage. I am unsure whether to tell my husband as he has recently been dealt some pretty scary health news himself and I dont want to upset/worry him even more but part of me needs his support. As much as it wasnt planned, losing a pregnancy is still horrible (have been through it before). I should add he doesn't know I have gotten a positive test either.
Should I tell him?
Pleasr be gentle in your responses, feeling pretty fragile right now :(
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I would tell. When your in a bad position there is nothing worse than people walking in egg shells. Your in this relationship together. So if you need to tell, tell. He may sense that your holding something back. Don't ruin the closeness of your relationship because he is having a rough time medically.
I think I would suck it up and focus on him for a while, you can always tell him later on, I'd be focusing just on him, I wouldn't want my parner to feel like one more thing gone wrong if I didn't have to . Sorry to hear , I miscarried not long ago it's dissapointing but it gets better over the weeks . Xx
I ended up telling him. He knew something was going on and pestered me until I told him. He took it well, asked if I was ok and we left it at that. Thanks to all the IMs for their responses on here and fb.