I’m 22 and I’m black but I want to marry a white lady of same age with me
But I find it so difficult
This has been making sad for this past months
I can’t help anymore I’m so stressed out, depressed.
And this is my everyday prayer point to God
If I can achieve this right now in my life I’ll be the most amazing happiest person ever
Finding my life partner solution
Finding my life partner solution
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Relationships & Marriage
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Please help
Just time
I don't think this is the right site for you. Try POF or EHarmony
WTF is wrong with you.
If it’s worrying you this much at this age then you need to get psychological help.
It can take many years to meet the right person, it happens when it happens.
You need to seek out a psychologist that can determine why this extreme longing is weighing you down so much. You need to find happiness within yourself, alone first. When you are happy on your own, then you will be ready to be with someone else. What if it doesn't work out? You sound like you could be a stage 5 clinger so you really need to sit back and calm down.
What if you meet the right person but they are not white? There's a lot more to a person than just skin colour.. try and find out what makes you happy that is something other than a specific age and skin colour and then find what you really want in a person.
Hahaha.
Your young and have plenty of time. What’s the rush? Being in a relationship isn’t everything and you shouldn’t expect being married to make you happy. Marriage takes a lot of work. Being in a relationship has often been more trouble than it was worth for me.
I’m sorry for all the unhelpful comments. It’s perfectly okay and normal to want to be with a partner, to want a family and someone to love and love you back, there is nothing wrong with you and you don’t need psychological help. I would start on dating sites that’s the go to place to meet someone these days. You might not meet her straight away but keep preserving and filtering through the people that you do chat and maybe meet along the way. Never give up cause you will find her.
I find the specifics of your wish odd. What does age and skin colour have to do with falling in love? You sound like an ad or something.