Update

***Update***
I posted about my close friend of years suddenly being distant and I want to thank everyone for such amazing and understanding responses. Some said not to make it about myself. Part the reason of thinking I have done something wrong is more if I had done something to cause the disconnect I would be able to address it/fix it. I was never about hinking about myself it was about attempting to problem solve how to mend my friendship. I don't throw friendships away easily. Yes the not feeling myself is a flag which is what had me worried and this had come up numerous times throughout our friendship and usually came good with a day or 2.
Anyway I thought about it and ended up thinking I need to just flat out ask if I had done something. I wasnso relieved to get a message back to not be silly that she was just feeling in a off. I offered again im available anything and I asked her if it was OK if I kept checking in on her because I was concerned. She accepted and since we have been chatting, not as often as usual but I know she will share with me and take me up on offers if she needs to. Thank you so much everyone for your amazing advice ❤