Sorry mumma's more of vent then any thing. At the moment I feel like all I do is give give give an feel unloved. Both hubby an I work full time jobs ( mine more physical an mental ) I'm on my feet for my work day, his more mental ( on phone's an computer all day. We come home an he's straight to computer to wind down, me it's get the girls ready for bath/shower, cook dinner, if I ask for help it's only for a few seconds, girls hardly want any thing to do with him. At moment hubby's mum has inoperable lung cancer so I'm there for his emotional needs, four 1/2 year old is getting her back molars early ( normally 6yrs ) so clinky to me an in pain, 10yr old has hit puberty an is moody an things she knows everything. Like all of us mumma's I just need so me down time an feel like I'm not allowed to. The other day at work a friend asked how I was an I just broke down an cried. Quess what I'm saying is has any other mumma felt this way before. Sorry for long read
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I’d be telling your husband the same thing I tell my kids, no screen time until you’ve done all your jobs! And by jobs I mean help with dinner bath bed. How rude to sit back and let you deal with everything. Imagine the difference to your mental load if your husband actually got off his butt and did his share of the chores. So wrong.