How do you try new things in the bedroom. My partner is quite small so we only ever do me on top or my legs over his shoulders 🙈 and it’s amazing every time. He wants me to be a bit freaky but I don’t know how 🤦♀️
How do you try new things in the bedroom. My partner is quite small so we only ever do me on top or my legs over his shoulders 🙈 and it’s amazing every time. He wants me to be a bit freaky but I don’t know how 🤦♀️
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Is this his way of asking if you would peg him?
Jump on to an adult toy website and scroll through together looking at all the different options of toy, games and outfits. That way you get an idea of what he actually wants. Because depending on who you are it could mean something different. Freaky to my partner would be having sex on a week night. Freaky to me would be him tying me up blind folded and and dripping hot wax on my nipples with a dildo up my bum.
Ask him! His kind of freaky could be different to yours. He may want to choke you or piss on you, who knows? We all have different levels. You just need to ask him and tell him you can't read his mind but you'll be open to his ideas if he communicates with you.
Start by telling him to be a little bit rough. Tell him pull my hair. Hands around my throat. Smack me. IF YOU ARE COMFORTABLE WITH THIS.
Get him to blow on your face. Tell him you like it when he does it on your titties too.
Buy a butt plug and some silicone lube and tell him to have a play around with it on you. Get some nipple tassels. A gag. Even a whip :P
Buy yourself some lingerie, crotch less panties. Gummy undies!
Start of small and start thinking of different ways up!!
Join the lovehoney mailing list, you'll get a weekly email with 'this weeks position' lol Might give you some ideas or some new fun toys :) good luck and enjoy lol