My husband and I have been together for 14 years and have 2 children (9 & 12) Very early on in our relationship i found him sending email replies to those emails that offer to send pics, we discussed it, he agreed to never.go there again. A few years later i found a strongnof inappropriate conversations with another female asking to meet up.
In the last few years i have seen a few conversationg which border on innapproprite but are usually deleted before i find them. Most recently, i busted him on a video call with another woman, asking to see her body and trying to get her to come to our house. I confronted him and he said he was just being stupid and it was a silly fuck around conversation. Where would you draw the line?
When.....long one
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Wtf??? You need to kick him to the kerb.
My line would have been the second time. Once is a silly fuck around. Twice is a pattern.
Years ago!
He’s crossed the line, several times, the video call would be it for me, you deserve better c’mon!!
Stop second guessing yourself, he's already fucked someone. I guarentee it.
Are you serious? Do you have no self worth..?
Leave. He’s a cheater and you’re literally handing him a silver platter to do it on.
I would have been out of there the first time I caught him. You have your head in the sand if you think he isn’t screwing around on you every chance he gets. Kick him out and get an sti check
He would be out the first time if it was me!
Honestly...if that's what you know of and let's face it... there's going to be plenty that you don't know....he sounds like a serial cheater. I would've cut him off ages ago, without trust there's no relationship just a huge game of pretend and denial that only seems to fool the people in the relationship while everyone else can see the truth very clearly.
Get rid of him... Yesterday. Start fresh, hold your head high and don't look back.
Good luck x