Hi sisterhood,
How does one end a relationship gently?
Partner and I have been together 8 years engaged 2. We have two young kids. We both work hospitality.
It seems we are just existing together now. We are both not happy but can't communicate it to eachother. We just keep going on with our lives. Just settled for the kids sake it seems.
We haven't been intimate in 2 months be it even a cuddle or kiss. He has turned down my advances also. It like we are just friends.
I love him but not on that level. He is an amazing bloke. We both deserve happiness.
Then there is the whole logistics of ending a relationship.
A little insight please.
Thankyou.
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This sounds like normal relationship stuff. Long term relationships have lulls of no communication and boredom/no sex. Things aren’t always great. If there is no big issues such as violence or abuse, try counselling and seek to heal your union together and for your kids more importantly. If it doesn’t work out in the end at least you know you tried and did your best