Hey lovely ladies,
My husband of 6 years/together 10 years really isn’t affectionate anymore, he hardly ever hugs, kisses etc randomly. Today I reached for a hug and he completely brushed me off.
Could it just be because we have been together 10 years (have a 1 yr old and a 3 yr old)?
How do I bring the spark back?
Bring back the spark
Bring back the spark
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Sounds like its him, not you. Could there be something on his mind? Have you asked him? I've been with my husband 15 years , with kids, and the spark of affectionate hugs, kisses, hand holding, and i love you's, have never diminished feeling - wise, but it has has gaps in time if we've just simply been busy for a while. But we always come back as united as before. Maybe this is your case too?
Have a chat to him.
Talk to him!!! Communication!
Man... I brush hubby off or vice versa for lots of reasons. Tired, stressed, anxious, busy,too hot, over excited, distracted... you name it. Our spark is just fine. Are you maybe reading this to be a big deal when it was just bas timing?