A question for those ladies who are separated/divorced and have since moved on... how long were you dating before you decided to move in together?
A question for those ladies who are separated/divorced and have since moved on... how long were you dating before you decided to move in together?
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Step 1 and the absolute minimum would be you are both actually, legally divorced.....
Morally, ethically, financially, psychologically....
What does signing a bit of paper have to do with it. Some couples spend 20 years separated but not technically divorced
There’s people who rape and murder too, if someone jumped off the roof, would you?
These are my values and my opinion, based on people having unfinished business and ruining their future relationships.
I didn’t ask for an opinion on my view, I just gave this woman my own perspective.
Feel free to give yours without discounting mine thanks.
Wow, you need to calm the fuck down a bit there crazy pants.. nowhere did I say anything about your view. I asked a question
Some people see marriage as just a piece of paper too, I don’t.
There’s also no need for swearing and name calling.
Within 3 months for me. But that's only because my situation and other dynamics, were personal to us both.
15 years on, we are still together and married now. Time frames are different for everyone . What might work for one couple that fast may not work for another and should wait.
Oh i should add , i was still married to the ex at the time but had separated 3 months prior.
Did you have kids then?
I would wait at least a year.
12 months? Maybe longer if kids are involved.
I had been single 5 months, he had been single about a month and we had been together about a week before he moved in
We moved in together after about 9 months of dating and about 24 months after the end of our previous relationships. Neither of us were married before but he had a 4 year old at the time we started dating