Just need to vent
I just left a seriously emotional abusive relationship and went to stay with my parents I've been there all of 2 days also really sick with a chest infection. Anyway I got up this morning at 6:30 and my mum said she would drop my kids to school as it was on her way to work so I stayed and was helping my dad around the house abit. Anyway I had to quickly go out and get my son's iPad from the house while my ex was at work. I came back and needed to change his nappy but had ran out of baby wipes so asked my dad if he had any cause they baby sit my nephew , anyway instead of saying no or yes it was I don't know why U don't have your own effing baby wipes, I was like I just haven't been to the shop yet. Anyway then my son spews and he starts yelling about how his whole house now smells like spew so I went to the laundry and was trying to wash out his shirt that he just spewed on and got yelled at cause I didn't know the tap I was using was broken. Then my mum rings he's standing there bitching about me on the phone whilst I'm in the same room. Anyway I thought being sick I'll just retreat to the room and stay out of his way so I go do that I'm not in the room for 5 mins and he tells me to get off my fat arse and take my kid to the park or go out and do something. I'm sick as a dog do you really think I want to go to the park and sit in the hot sun for hours with a baby? I ended up just leaving and going to my sister in law's house for a bit.
Literally just want to run away right now. All of this happening and my best friends sends me a MSG saying she's not going to lie but she's thinking about msging my ex to see if he wants to hook up with her. Feeling so alone right now 😭
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Wow.
You need your own place. Somewhere you can call home and feel settled. I’m sorry this is happening to you.
And that’s not a friend. No friend would do that. Ever.
I’m so sorry. Your parents are probably the reason you ended up in an abusive relationship in the first place. It’s harder to walk away from dysfunction when you come from an uncaring, unempathetic background.
I think it’s a good idea to get yourself some outside support. I’d ask my GP for a referral to a counsellor.
I’d also speak to a DV support group in your area and see if they can refer you to services to get you on your feet earlier. It’s clear you will need to get out of your parents house as soon as you can.
Wtf 😥 Your Dad is an arsehole. Your so called best friend needs to get hit by a truck. I feel really sad for you, I hope you can get into your own place soon and wipe out all the people that haven't had your back at this time.
Wow. Let rip on your friend (that is NOT your friend) move out of your dad's, build your new life and in a year from today things will be so much different for you
Your best friend should fuck off.
You have a lot of abusive people in your life.
I was like that too.
It takes a lot to entangle yourself, I chose to read, read, read and educate myself.
I love to study, so it suited me.
Others choose therapy, which would probably get results quicker and easier 😀.
You deserve respect, you are enough, but you’ll find it hard to believe until you break free from all the toxicity.
None of the people you describe here deserve a place in your life.
Family, you make take the route of standing up to them one day and keeping your distance, but the friend, she needs to go.
I’m lucky the one person who has my back and always wants the best for me is my dad.
My mum is another story.
Work on getting your own space, then look into therapy because you are so worth it ❤️❤️❤️