I don’t know how to feel about this,
I’ve been with my current partner for 2years we have a baby together 9months and both have a child to previous relationships.
I picked my partners phone up the other week as I saw continued messages coming through on Instagram from a woman.
I opened the private messages and found a heap of messages him messaging her saying send me selfies after you have been for a run etc. then there was another one of her saying you must be lonely at your house during covid. He didn’t even reply to her saying that he lives here with his kids and partner. I confronted him about this and he just tried to brush it off saying I’m not arguing with you I love you. I asked why he was messaging other women asking for selfies. I don’t know how to feel about this or what to think.
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That’s weird. My male friends who are in relationships don’t ask me for selfies and if one did I would definitely feel they were being inappropriate.
I’d be watching him carefully. Eyes open, store this info away. Of course let him know his behaviour has crossed a line. If his behaviour doesn’t improve you know where you stand.
Don’t ignore warning signs!
You had a baby with a stranger, I’m sure you’re going to learn more about him, sounds like it won’t be good.
I've been cheated on, and I found out after a few years but what I saw along the way, the clues, are clues I would never let go again. Talking to women online is one of them. If he doesn't respect you, he doesn't respect you, that's all you need to know.
Mmmmm I would be kicking his ass!! I think it’s a dog act personally!
You have his baby 9 months ago.. sorry he is a cheating dog setting something up for a fling if he hasn’t already. Seen it for myself. If he isn’t cheating then he just a disrespectful selfish pig who isn’t thinking of you and your child.
Nope!!! Just nope! Dig deeper...there's more..all the best 💙
Could have written this myself! Found messages on Insta, fb, Snapchat. What is done is done, but I wish I had recognised the signs a few years ago and saved myself the heartache! 🚩
I think you know in your heart what you need to do 💔💔