Does anyone else have a lazy ass hubby who barely lifts a finger at home?
Yes he work Mon to Fri, but comes home and completely switches off.
I also work nights 3-4 nights a week.
He goes straight to the lounge, has dinner and goes to bed.
Wont help me out in the least.
I come home to a sink full of dishes every night I work.
This weekend he has done absolutely nothing.
I am mostly frustrated because his ex has given us his daughter full time.
I just know he will expect me to do everything.
How do I make him help out more without nagging?
Lazy hubby
Lazy hubby
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Nope but if I did he would be out on his arse pretty quick smart. Don’t put up with this shit. You deserve better.
She wants him to help out more and asks how but your only remark is to suggest she should get rid . Sick of women who always jump straight to the dump him card because you've decided singlehandedly that her relationship is beyond saving.
I don’t understand blokes / people like this. How do they get off feeling so entitled as to not help or do their fair share. Don’t let him get away with it. Tell him he’s on dishes while you do the kids bath. Tell him to bring in the washing while you finish dinner. You’re a team!!
Mine does everything. Cooks, cleans, even on weekends he lets me sleep in while he gets up to the kids. I’d say, not being harsh.... but you’ve allowed this behavior for too long and now your just fed up. Put your foot down and tell him how you feel and that he needs to step up. And don’t start doing everything for his daughter because he will then expect it .... from day one you tell him, it’s his job to do everything for his daughter! Period! Of course you can help out, but help HIM... don’t just do it all yourself.