TMI - downstairs maintenance

Anon Imperfect Mum

TMI - downstairs maintenance

Ok single mums I can't believe I'm asking this but what's the norm for downstairs maintenance..... I'm ready to get back in the game after being married 10 years and I was thinking what's happening back then may be different now and I am already awkward enough without adding that worry haha. Full disclosure - I've hated men for a while so havnt been too stressed about it.
So tell me ladies........

Posted in:  Life Lessons, Relationships & Marriage, Self Care

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Completely personal preference! Yours! I love a full brazillin. I've had laser sessions now so much easier than waxing but exprensive. Worth every cent though!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Personally I'm not a fan of ingrown hairs to make myself look like a prepubescent child. But that's because Brazilians took off when I was a bit older so it wasn't my norm. Just do what you like. I don't think a man has a say in how you groom beyond having the right to say he'd prefer not go down on a woman if it's long.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

You don’t get ingrowns with laser lol!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I have no advice but it depends on your lifestyle and who you're with.

I am big on off grid, self sustainability. In the group of singles I am in, this has come up.

It's all relative to who you're with and your level of comfort.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Genuine question... what does this have to do with sustainability? Is it general beliefs, or the impact of shavers, was, ipl etc on the environment? Is there more environmentally friendly options if that is the case?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

My girl friends and i are mid thirties, we go bare. Our men love it.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I do what makes me comfortable which is not doing anything at all. Do what you like and what you’ve always done. The right guy won’t care one way or the other.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I use a small electric trimmer once a week. It only takes a few minutes.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I get a full Brazilian every month. Feels much better and doesn’t get all yucky during your period.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I personally am either full Brazilian or trimmed really short

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I personally am either full Brazilian or trimmed really short

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I personally am either full Brazilian or trimmed really short

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Firstly, do whatever you feel comfortable with. However, I’d say most man prefer no hair or just a landing strip. I prefer no hair on my female sex partner, too. ( I’m
married to a man but very occasionally have sex with a woman with my husband’s blessing - no judgement please). I recently started having laser hair removal down there and love it. No more painful waxing and ingrown hairs. It’s a miracle.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

100% laser.
I feel the men prefer no hair, and most ladies I know what had full Brazilian laser sessions.
I prefer hubby to have minimal hair, and feel like I will do the same for him.
Laser is super easy to maintain (and by that I mean absolutely no maintenance), and no complaints from hubby.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I like no hair but full bush ATM as the girl I used for all my waxing now only does lashes elsewhere. I was only comfortable with her. I can't shave as my uniform doesnt breath TMI

You should do what makes you feel comfortable. Some men are freaked out by no hair.

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