For people the have been cheated on by their long time partner how did you know? What were the signs that’s gave it away OR the signs you chose to ignore
For people the have been cheated on by their long time partner how did you know? What were the signs that’s gave it away OR the signs you chose to ignore
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I knew something was wrong immediately. He came home behaving oddly. He was the sort of person I could read like an open book. He came home from mates house and didn’t want me to kiss him hello, when normally he was all over me like a rash. He was just much quieter and distant.
I asked him if he was ok, he said he was. When his mood didn’t lift the next day I asked his mate what was going on. I didn’t accuse I just asked what was wrong.
His mate fessed up pretty quick.
Knew straight up , distant quiet there in body but not emotionally present , putting me down , not wanting to be really intimate, then overly intimate new skills in the bedroom grooming himself , always wanting his time , lack of interest in the home maitence family time, just very obvious when someone is lying truth usually comes out hard for cheaters to function when they have more than 1 woman on their mind ! If you start asking yourself are they cheating you already know
Pretty much straight away. Just his behavior .
With boyfriends before my ex they became distant and guilty. Gifts like flowers. Suddenly have to go places alone. My ex was completely different, he had no guilt at all, he hooked up with women while working away and come home and still want it from me. He would accuse me of cheating too. He would also discuss with me friends of his that cheated. There are two types of cheaters, ones with a conscience and ones without. The ones without are harder to spot!
My ex was getting angry for no reason, taking it out on me if the other girl was around ( my friend ) he acted different which made me suss else I wouldn’t have expected it. Changing passwords, sleeping with the phone. Anything odd that you know isn’t normal, go with your gut. The gut doesn’t lie. Do not let on if you have a gut feeling either, play dumb dig deep and be smart about it then bust his ass! if he gets any hint of it he will lei anyway so don’t let on. Stall fb, stalk everything.! If you find anything keep it in until you know for sure, what you want to do. I booted mine and punch him a few good ones and never seen him again.
If they act strange, different in any way. If he accuses usually of cheating all the time, then he is probably doing it.
Gut feeling.... I suspected and asked if he had ever slept with this girl. He said he would never. I was 11 weeks pregnant when She messaged me and told me that they had slept together a few months prior...He also would get short tempered when I spoke with male friends and would imply that I was the one cheating.
Taking their phone to the shower, that's always been my big red flag, most people take their phones to the toilet with them, but you cant use a phone in the shower!
Missed/ignored so many signs.
Minimal conversation
No sex
No affection
Distant
Protective with phone
White lies about where he was going etc